What does triangulation refer to?

Triangulation refers to a dynamic where two individuals communicate about a third person without that third person being included in the conversation. This often occurs in familial or relational contexts where one party seeks to influence or gain support from another regarding a third party, which can lead to miscommunication and misunderstandings. Triangulation can complicate relationships and create a sense of loyalty or division among the parties involved, impacting the therapeutic process when individuals bring these dynamics into a counseling setting.

Understanding triangulation is essential in therapeutic practices, particularly for professionals working with families or individuals with autism, as it helps to clarify communication patterns and encourage healthier interactions. Recognizing and addressing triangulation allows the therapist to guide clients toward direct communication, fostering healthier relationships and encouraging participants to articulate their feelings and needs directly.